Hallo OneLiver!

We would assume that many of our viewers are feeling lonely so that they are here to find someone to talk to. There is nothing to be shamed about being lonely because we have all been there. And we should be proud if we can ease some of their insecurity by the calls! Let’s talk a look of tips on how to cheer up that lonely someone other than just listen to them <3

1 – Talk something small

People know pity. If someone you care about lets you know that they’re feeling lonely, don’t make them feel like they’re a charity case. The last thing they need is to feel pitied. Instead, do something that feels natural. Invite them to join you on the same outings that you’d normally go on, and be sure to invite them regularly. Be real. They’ll appreciate it.

2 – Get to know them

Taking the time to get to know someone is one of the kindest things you can do for them. It helps a lonely person to feel alive, loved, and cared for. So ask questions! Find out what they like and dislike, what they do for fun, and what they avoid at all costs. Let them talk about themselves, and, again, use those active listening skills.

3 – Be Optimistic

A lonely person needs strong, optimistic friends. Negativity, sadness, and loneliness can easily spread—think of them almost like social diseases. Make sure that you’re a positive influence. This can be a lot of work, especially if you’re not naturally cheerful, but it can make a world of difference.

4 – Help set goals

Setting small goals and attaining them can be an immensely satisfying process, and are more important than ever when you’re feeling down. If you have a lonely friend who is in need of cheer, you can help! If they’re willing, talk to them and find out what they want, and perhaps even make a list of the things that are holding them back.

 

Be a good companion and make them call you back always! 🙂
Good luck and enjoy performing today!